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This, is not a bucket list site. However, many would call it just that, but read on to see why I disagree.   Until today, I never knew why I never liked that old English idiom,  “Kick the Bucket”.  The 2007  movie, “The bucket list” popularized the bucket list,  but it did not capture the original meaning. I discovered there are several theories as to the origin of the phrase, but the most plausible to me is from John Badcock’s slang dictionary of 1823.  <\/p>\n

The explanation is given in 1800’s words, saying, “One Bolsover having hung himself from a beam, while standing on a pail or bucket, kicked this vessel away in order to pry into futurity and it was all UP with him from that moment: Finis.”   In other words, a man was standing on a bucket, with a noose around his neck,  tied to a beam, and he “kicked the bucket” over,  committing suicide. <\/p>\n

That is not the kind of list I made in 1999.   And while I call it a “before I die list”,  it’s not about dying.  My list is about living.   Creating a plan and living with a plan to do things before you die.   Things on a list that have meaning and significance and forethought.    My “before I die list”  is experiencing fun and exciting things I choose to do, not hanging in a noose after kicking the bucket from under my feet.     <\/p>\n

The back story.  There are many sections on this website that are part of “the back story”.  What are they? Well there the back story of what you’re reading.  Usually they are my experiences and stories that are taken from my journal and memory. The back story to this entire site started in 2003 when I bought the domains, Set up a website and started making  my list.   In 1999 my father died at the age of 60 from Lou Gehrig’s disease (ALS).  All of his brothers died before the age of 60.  I was almost 40 at the time, and decided that I wasn’t going spend the prime of my life looking forward to retirement, because many of the men in my family didn’t.  <\/p>\n

And  since my first big trip in 1984, I discovered I love to travel and experience things.  Even though I made loose plans before that time, (one was to visit all 50 states) I actually made a fomal list with the title TO DO BEFORE I DIE  and started actively pursuing my experiences.  During the 2020 pandemic, my wife and I visited Iguazu Falls with a stopover in Bogot\u00e1 Columbia,  San Paulo Brazil and beautiful Rio de Janeiro. While we were outside of the country president Trump closed the borders  for certain people entering from outside the USA. For the remainder 2020 we focused on things in the United States, but we were still hampered. I had planned to go on a motorcycle trip through Patagonia in the fall of 2020, but because the Chilean and Argentinian governments  were in hard lockdown, it just wasn’t possible.  Plan B was Morocco<\/a>, which wasn’t hit particularly hard, allowed tourism and was on the list for a motorcycle trip. You can read more about it here. The bottom line? No matter what’s going on in the world, or in your hometown, you should still have your list, modify as necessary, and execute.   I told a friend who was going with us to Patagonia, and decided not to go, mostly because it was on motorcycles:   “you’re afraid of dying and I’m afraid of not living”.  Like I said earlier about the bucket, I choose to live my life.  And while I may not be rich in retirement I hope to have lived a full life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you will fall into someone else’s plan.\u00a0 And guess what they have planned for you?\u00a0 Not much.\u00a0 –Jim Rohn.\u00a0 \u00a0 I would add, “not much,\u00a0 except seperate you and your money”.\u00a0 \u00a0The truth is, the “they” are many people.\u00a0 They,\u00a0 your employer, has a plan to exact as much time from you in exchange for as little money as possible.\u00a0 They, the government, has plans\u00a0 to extract as much money from you as they can.\u00a0 Don’t forget, you exchange your time for money,\u00a0 so taxes you pay, represent an extraction of your time.\u00a0 In the context of work, my dad often said “time is money”.\u00a0 And we seldom have enough of either.\u00a0 \u00a0Lost time is never found again, to plan your time. \u00a0Plan the time you have b4youdie.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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